Bis'mihi Ta'aaLa
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A A D
K E E
PARWARISH KA TAREEQAH
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【1】 Orat Ba wuzu Doodh PiLaawe, Q Ke
Doodh Ka Badaa Asar Hota Hai.
【2】 Orto Ki Aadat hai Ke
Bachcho Ko Kaheen Sipaahi Se, Kaheen BiLLi
Se, Our Kaheen Our Daraawni Chizon Se
So Ye Buri Baat Hai, Usse Bachcho Ka
DiL Kamzor Hojata Hai.
【3】 Us Ke Doodh PiLaane Ke Liye
Our Khana KhiLaane Ke Liye Waqt Muqarrar
(Fix) Rakho, Ke Wo Tandurust Rahe.
【4】 Usko Saaf Suthruaa Rakho Ke
Usse Tandurusti Rehti Hai.
【5】 Usko Bahut Banaao Sanghaar Mat
Karo.
.Behashtee
Zewar-5/282.
【6】 Agar Ladka (Boy) Ho To Uske
Sir (Had) Par BaaL (Hair) Mat Badaao.
【7】 Agar Ladki (GirL) Hai, Usko Jab
Tak Parde Me Rehne Ke Laaeq Na
Hojaawe Zewar Mat Pehnaao, Usse Ek To
Unki Jaan Ka Khatrah Hai, Doosre
Bachpan Hii Se Zewar Ka Shokh DiL
Me Hona Achha Nahi Hai.
【8】 Bachcho Ke Haath Se Gareebo
Ko Khaana, Kapada, Paisa, Aur Aisee Cheeze
DiLwaya Karo, Isi Tarah Khaane - Peene Ki
Cheez Unke Bhai - Bahano Ko Ya Aur
Bachcho Ko Taqseem Karaaya Karo, Take
Unko Sakhaawat Ki Aadat ho,Magar Ye Yaad
Rakho Ke Tum Apni Cheezen Unke Haath
Se DiLwaaya Karo, Khood Jo Cheez Shariat
Me Unhi Kii Ho Usko DiLwaana Kisi Ko
Durust Nahi Hai.
【9】 Zyadah Khaane Waalo Ki Buraaee
Uske Saamne Kiya Karo, Magar Kisi Ka
Naam Lekar Nahi, BaLke Is Tarah Ke
Dekho Beta Jo Koi Zyada Khata Hai
To Log Usko Bail Samajte Hai.
【10】 Agar Ladka (Boy) Ho To IsLaami
Libaas Or Sufed (White) Kapde Ki Ragbat
Uske DiL Me Paida Karo, Aur Ger Sharee ,
Rangeen Aur TakaLLuf Ke Libaas Se
Usko Nafrat DiLaao, Ke Aise Kapde Ladkiya
(Girles) Pehanti hai, Tum Maa Sha ALLah Mard Ho,Hamesha
Uske Saamne Aisee Baate Karo.
.Behashtee
Zewar-5/283.
【11】 Agar Ladki (girl) Ho Jab Bhi
Zyadah Maang, Chotee Aur Bahut TakaLLuf Ke
Kapdo Ki Usko Aadat Mat DaaLo.
【12】 Uski Sab Zeede Puri Mat
Karo, Qu Ke Us Se Mizaaj Bighadta
Hai.
【13】 ChiLLa Kar BoLne Se Roko, Khas
Kar Agar Ladki (Girl) Ho To ChiLLaane
Par Khoob Daanto, Warna Badi Hokar Wahi
Aadat Hojaawegi.
【14】 Jin Bachchon Ki Aadate Kharaab
Hai, Ya Padne-Likhne Se Bhaagte Hai, Ya
TakaLLuf Ke Khaane - Kapde Ke Aadi Hai,
Unke Paas Baithne Se, Unke Saath KheLne Se
Unko Bachaao.
【15】 In Baaton Se Yaani Gussa Karna, Juth BoLna,
Kisi Ko Dekh Kar JaLna Ya Hirs Karna, Chori, Chughli khaana, Apni Baat
Par Adaa Rehna, Khwah Makhaah Usko Banaana, Be Fayda Bahut Baate Karna, Be Baat
Hansna,Zyada Hansna, Dhoka Dena, BhaLi Buree Baat Ka Na Sochna, Waghairah,
Us Ko Nafrat DiLaati Raho, Aur Jab In
Baato Me Se Koi Baat Hojaawe, Fauran
Usko Roko, Aur Us Par Tanmbeeh Karo.
.Behashtee
Zewar-5/283.
【16】 Agar Koee Cheez Tod Fod De,
Ya Kisi Ko Maar Baithe To Munaasib
Sazaado, Taake Fir Aisaa Na Kare, Aisee
Baato Me Pyaar DuLaar Bachcho Ko
Kharaab Aur Kho Detaa Hai.
【17】 Bahut Sawere Mat Sone Do.
【18】 Sawere Jaaghne Ki Aadat DaaLo.
【19】 Jab ⑦ SaaL
Ki Hojaawe Namaaz Ki Aadat DaaLo.
【20】 Jab Maktab (Dineeyaat Ka Madarsa) Me
Jaane Ke QaabiL Hojaawe Sab Se PehLe
Quraan Ki TaaLim Do.
.Behashtee
Zewar-5/283.
【21】 Jahaa Tak Ho Sake Deendaar
Ustaad Se Padwaao.
【22】 Maktab Me Jaane Me Kabhi
Reaayat Mat Karo.
【23】 Kisii Kisii Waqt Un Logo Ko
Nek Logon Ki Hikaayate (Stories) Sunaya Karo.
【24】 Unko Aisi Kitaabe Mat Padne,
Aur Mat Dekhne Do Jin Me Aashiqee
Maashooqee Ki Baate, Ya Shari'at Ke
KhiLaaf Mazmoon Ho, Ya Aur Behudaah
Qisse Ya GazaLen Waghairah Ho. {Aur Aaj
Ke Waqt Me TeLevison ,L c d, Computer Aur
MobiLe Waghaira Me Aawara Aur Be
Hayaa Aur Fuhash Program Mat Dekhne Do }.
【25】 Aisi Kitaabe Padwaao Jin Me
Deen Ki Baaten Aur Dunyaa Ki Zaruri
Kaarwaaee Aa Jaawe.
.Behashtee
Zewar-5/284.
【26】 Maktab Se Aa jaane Ke Baad
Kisi Qadar DiL BehLaane Ke Liye
Usko KheL Ne Ki Ijaazat Do, Taake
Uski Tabiyat Kund Na Hojaawe, Lekin KhaiL
Aisaa Ho, Jis Me Koi Gunaah Na Ho,
Chot Lagne Ka Andeshaa Na Ho.
【27】 Aatish Baazi Ya Baajah, Ya FuzooL
Cheeze Khareed Ne Ke Liye Paise
Mat Do.
【28】 KheL Tamaashe, Jaadu Aur Circus
waghairah DikhLaane Ki Aadat Mat DaLwaao.
【29】 AwLaad Ko Zaroor Koi Aisa
Hunar Sikhaado Jis Se Zaroorat Aur
Museebat Ke Waqt Chaar Paise HaasiL
Kar Ke Apna, Apni Beewi Aur Apne
Bachcho Ka Guzara Kar Sake.
【30】 Ladkiyo (Girls) Ko Itnaa Likhna Padna
SikhLaado Ke Zaroori Paper Aur Khutoot Aur
Ghar Ka Hisaab Likh Sake Aur Pad
Sake.
.Behashtee
Zewar-5/284.
【31】 Bachcho Ko Aadat DaaLo Ke
Apna Kaam Apne Haath Se Kiya Kare,
Apaahaj Aur Sust Na Hojaawe, Unko Kaho
Ke Raat Ko Bichhona Apne Haath Se
Bichhawe, Subah Ko Sawere Uth Kar Teh Kar
Ke Ehtiyaat Se Rakhde, Kapdo Ki Ghathdi
Apne Entizaam Me Rakhe, Fataa Ho To Khud
Si Liya Kare, Kapde Khwah Maile Ho Ya
UjhLe Aisi Jagah Rakhe Jaha Keede Aur
Chuhe Ka Dar Na ho, Agar Dhoban Ko De
To Khud Gin Kar De Aur Likhde Aur
Ginkar PadtaaL Kar Ke Le,
【32】 Ladkiyo (Girls) Ko Takeed Karo Ke
Jo Zewar Tumhaare Badan Par Hai, Raat
Ko Sone Se PehLe Aur Subah Jab
Uthe To Dekh BhaaL Kar Liya Kare.
【33】 Ladkiyo (GirLs) Se Kaho Ke Jo
Kaam Khaane Pakaane, Seene Pirone, Kapde Rangne,
Cheez Bunne, Ka Ghar Me Huwa Kare
Usme Ghaor Kar Ke Dekhaa karo Ke
Kun Kar Ho Raha Hai.
【34】 Jab Bachche Se Koi Baat
Khoobi Ki Zaahir Ho, Us Par Khub
Shaabash Do Aur Pyaar Do, BaLke Usko
Kuch Enaam Bhi Do, Taake Uska DiL Badhe,
Aur Jab Uski Koi Buri Baat Dekho , PehLe
Tanhaaee Me Usko Samjhaao, Ke Dekho Buree
Baat Hai, Dekhne WaaLe DiL Me Kya
Kehte Hoge, Aur Jis Jis Ko Khabar
Hogi Wo DiL Me Kya Kahega, Khabar Daar
Fir Aisa Mat Karna, Nek Bakht Ladke
Aisa Nahi Kiya Karte, Aur Agar Fir
Wahi Kaam Kare To Munaasib Sazaado.
【35】 Maa Ko Chaahiye Ke Bachche
Ko Baap Se Daraati Rahai.
.Behashtee
Zewar-5/284.
【36】 Bachche Ko Koi Kaam Chhupa
Kar Mat Karne Do,KhaiL Ho Ya Khaana
Ho, Jo Kaam Chhupa Kar Karega Samaj
Jhaao Ke Wo Usko Buraa Samajhtaa Hai,
So Agar Wo Buraa Hai To Usse
chhudaao, Aur Agar Achha Hai, Jaise
Khaana Peena To Usse Kaho Ke Sab Ke
Saamne Khaaye Piye.
【37】 Koi Kaam Mehnat Ka Uske
Zimme Muqarrar Kardo, Jis Se Sihat Aur
Himmat Rahe, Susti Na Aane Paawe, Ek Aadh
K.M. ChaLna Waghairah.
【38】 ChaLne Me Taaqeed Karo Ke
Bahut JaLdi Na ChaLe, Nigaah Uthaa Kar
Na Chale, Raaste Se TakLeef Dene WaaLi
Cheeze Hatata Huwa ChaLe.
【39】 Usko Aajeezi Ekhtiyaar Karne Ki
Aadat DaaLo, Zubaan Se , ChaaL Se Aur
Bartaao Se Shaikhi Na Bigharne Paawe, Yaha
Tak Ke Apne Ham Umar Bachcho Me
Baith Kar Apne Kapde, Makaan, Khaandan, Kitaab wa
QaLam Aur Dawaat Aur Takhti Tak Ki
Taareef Na Karne Paawe.
【40】 Kabhi Kabhi Usko Do Chaar
Rupiye De Diya Karo Ke Apni Marzi
Ke Muwaafiq Kharch Kare, Magar Usko Ye
Aadat DaaLo Ke Koi Cheez Tum Se
Chhupa Kar Na Khareede.
.Behashtee
Zewar-5/285.
【41】 Unko Khaane - Peene Aur Sone Ke
Aadab SikhLaao.
【42】 Rozindah Kiye Jaane WaaLe Kaamo
Ki Masnoon Duwaaye SikhLaao.
【43】 Apne Se Badon Ka Ehtiraam
Karne Ki Taaqeed Karo.
【44】 Har Kaam SaLeeqah Bandi (Diciplin)
Se Karne Ki Taaqeed Karte Raho.
【45】 Unko Bachpan Hi Se Duwaa
Maangne Ki Aadat DaLwaao.
【46】 Unko MehfiL Me Uthne Baithne
Ka Tareeqah Aur Aadab BatLaao.
【47】 Unko Maa-Baap, Daada-Daadi, Naana-Naani, Anna, Aur
Bade Bhai Bahan Ke Huqooq BatLaado.
【48】 Qaraabat Daaron Ke Huqooq BatLaado.
【49】 Aam MusaLmaano Ke Huqooq BatLaado.
【50】 Unko Hamsaaya (Padosi) Ke Huqooq Bhi
BatLaado.
. Beshti Zewar-5/285/287.
ALLah
Subhaanahu Ta'aaLa Ham Sab Ko Apni
AwLaad Ki IsLaami Ta'aLeem Wa Tareeq
Ke Mutaabiq Tarbiyat Karne Ki Tofeeq
Marhamat Farmaaye, Aameen Ya RabbaL AaLameen.
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HADITH ME HE K JISKE
YAHA LADKI PEDA HOTI HE TO ALLAH TALA USKE YAHA FARISHTE BHEJTE HE. FARISHTE AA
KAR KEHTE HE, AE GHAR WALO! TUM PAR SALAMATI HO,(PHIR) WO BACHI KO APNE PARO KE
SAYE ME LE LETE HE OR USKE SIR PAR HATH PHERTE HUWE KEHTE HE.: YE KAMZOR JAAN
HE JO EK KAMZOR JAAN SE PEDA HUWI,JO IS BACCHI KI DEKH BHAL OR PARWARISH KAREGA
QIYAMAT TAK ALLAH KI MADAD USKE SATH RAHEGI.(Tabrani)
Bis'mihi Ta'aaLa
PARWARISH KA TAREEQAH
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